SEGMENT 1: Inspirational Opening
Once upon a time (but still
within my lifetime), I met a young man who told this true story. He had been
praying for a soulmate, because he was sad and lonely.
Just as he prayed, he heard
a knock on the door. He opened the door to find his best friend there. She
was a beautiful, talented woman who had been friends with him for more than
5 years. They got along fine and the man had always told himself that as
long as a woman like her existed, he had faith that he could find that
special woman. After the initial hellos and tea, the friend confessed that
she had come to tell him some surprising news. She had discovered that she
was in love with him.
The young man said that he
began to shake uncontrollably. This couldn't be. It simply couldn't be. He
told himself that his shaking was due to his surprise, and not to the
tinkling, fiery passion rising through his body. He told himself that his
shock came from the fact that she was just a friend, and not from the fact
that his prayer had been answered even before he finished it. That very day
he sent his friend away so clumsily that her heart was broken. He not only
lost the love of his life. He lost his best friend.
Years later, he confessed
that he was, indeed, in love with her. So why had he not received what he so
ardently prayed for? "I was not ready," he responded.
I'm not making this up,
beautiful ones. This is just one of the many true stories that lead me to
develop ways to help you become available for what you want.
In today’s segment, we will
look at five ways in which you may be making yourself unavailable to what
you want, and thus blocking the Law of Attraction from manifesting it
in your life. Then I will personally take you into a cellular visualization
and meditation journey to open a space for what you want.
But first, our station ID.

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SEGMENT 2: Topic
introduction
Would you stay in the house of a hostess who has not made a loving space for
you? I imagine you would not. I imagine that you would leave as soon as
possible, feeling unwelcome.
In the same way, the energy of what you desire will not show up if you do
not open a space for it in yourself and in your life. The first
Alchemical Key to open the flow of the Law of Attraction is
availability.
When I talk about being available, I am not referring to consciously
thinking or willing what you want. You may consciously think that you are
available. Yet, there may be patterns of beliefs or emotions in your cells,
in your psyche and your Energy Field that are closed off to your
desire or actively repel it.
If you cannot determine your availability by what you consciously think, how
do you know if you are available? More importantly: how do you make
yourself available for what you want?
Let’s look at how the unconscious patterns you may be holding are formed.
Then we will do an experiential exercise to understand how you sustain these
embedded unconscious patterns.
What is the Emotional Undertow that is secretly pulling you back and
away from what you desire?
We individually and collectively create the world through our perception.
Our perception, in turn, is mold by our socialization. This socialization is
time-bound and limited by perceptual scripts that have to do with the limits
of understanding of our family and culture of origin, with our community and
with the culture of the age in which we live. Our socialization embeds these
limits in our cellular make-up and in our unconscious mind at a tender age
in which we are vulnerable to them because:
1.
We don’t know better.
2.
We need to learn how to survive in this world and we are emotionally
vulnerable to this need. Therefore, whatever we learn as children is imbued
with life or death emotional charge that overrides rational beliefs.
3.
We are financially dependent on those who are teaching this, and
therefore we believe and have to believe to survive
4.
We are not full-grown citizens and have little legal options.
This socialization becomes a Domestication Trance that embeds deep
within our psyche what we can or cannot do, what we deserve and what is
possible. These learned limits of perception become our reality, not only
during childhood, but long after we are grown up and living as adults.
These underground feelings and beliefs ~what I call the Emotional
Undertow~ are fed by a lifetime of repetition that holds them on place
in our Energy Field. And here are three important keys to unlock
these patterns.
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We feed these patterns by giving
them attention.
Attention makes these patterns grow.
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We charge them with our emotions,
which are the fuel for the Law of Attraction.
Emotions charge these patterns with magnetic power, which is the
power that attracts what you desire.
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We keep them solid by our
attachment to them.
Keeping them solid means keeping them real in your perception and keeping
them recurring as your physical reality. You keep meeting the same type of
people, the same set of circumstances that reinforces these old beliefs
and keeps you trapped in your past.
Attachment means that we identify so deeply with these learned
beliefs, that we cannot release them. They feel as part of our personality,
and we secretly hold on to them. In a sense, we have our wires cross. We
hold on to that which is secretly undermining our conscious desire as if
holding on to dear life. There is even a name for this in psychology. It is
called Psychological Reversal.

SEGMENT 3: Experiential Knowledge
Let’s try this information experientially.
Part
1: Measuring the Emotional Undertow
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Close your eyes and think of what you want.
Say it out loud. See yourself.
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See yourself already having or being what you want. If you want Inner
Peace, see yourself meditating in a deep state of peace and harmony. If
you want wealth, see yourself depositing a million dollars in your bank
account or strolling in your mansion.
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The "You" that is you are seeing is the DreamSelf. She is the aspect of
yourself that already has or is your dream, like a future self.
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I am going to ask a question. When you hear it, you must catch the first
thought or feeling that pops up, and hold it for examination. The very
first thought or feeling. Here we go.
“Why aren't you already there?"
"Why don't you already have that?
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That first thought of feeling is the
obstacle that is clogging your flow of the Law of Attraction. Hold on to
it for examination. Whatever comes first to your mind, that’s part of the
Emotional Undertow, the hidden pattern that is clogging your flow
of Attraction. It may be an emotion, such as feeling inadequate, too old,
powerless, angry or afraid. It may be a sensation, such as fatigue or
dizziness. It may be a belief or disbelief or a thought.
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Allow that reaction to draw a distance between you and your DreamSelf.
This distance reflects how you feel and think while under the influence of
this Emotional Undertow. It may be an arms length, 3 feet, 3 miles
or 3 years away.
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Feel that distance as a measure of the impact that your Emotional
Undertow is having on your ability to manifest your desire. That
distance is how far back and under your learned, unconscious beliefs are
pulling you away from your conscious desires.
Part
2: Clearing the Emotional Undertow
When you have a tug of war between what you consciously want and the
underground beliefs you inherited, you may experience frustration,
stagnation or ambivalence. In this case the flow of the LOA does not know
which way to go, and your emotionally charged unconscious desire overrides
your conscious will.
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Now close your eyes again and think of
someone that you love or admire a lot who has that quality or has already
achieved this.
For example, if you want health and vitality, think of a best friend who
is vigorous, healthy and rarely gets sick. Visualize her dancing, swimming
or whatever she loves to do that gives her that vitality. If you want to
express your highest creative potential or to be prosperous, find someone
who you love or admire and has that, like Georgia O’Keefe or Ophra
Winfrey.
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Imagine that you are this person.
You are enjoying what you have achieved. It is part of who you are and it
fills you up with joy and power. You are feeling confident and peaceful.
You are smiling and walking tall and secure in your accomplishments. You
have no doubt because you have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that you
can do this, that you already are this. You no longer desire it. You are
living it. See and feel yourself enjoying that success. See yourself in
the mansion, the fitness, the spotlight or wherever you experience the
fulfillment of your dream.
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Become aware of the people who surround
you. Experience and accept their recognition and admiration. Experience
how it feels to be valued and appreciated, to be looked up to.
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As you see and feel this successful you,
stay silent and quiet for a little while. Become aware of your feelings.
Become aware of the physical vibration of your feelings in and around you.
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Enter your silence. Become even more silent and quiet and focus on the
silence until you can hear a high
frequency pitch in the silence. It sounds like a remote radio signal.
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Once you hear that high pitch frequency,
see if you can begin to feel the vibration of your cells. It feels like a
subtle vibration in and around you. How is the vibration feeling? As you
experience your success, does the vibration get stronger? More peaceful?
Faster? Higher and lighter?
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You have raised your emotional frequency
and have allowed yourself to be and have your dream. You have done this
because you have believed that you are that person, and you are
certain that this person already is and has that. Nevertheless, the
strong emotional frequency you are experiencing is completely yours.
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All that’s preventing you from raising
those vibrations daily to attract what you desire are those learned
limitations that make you belief that you do not have and that you are not
your desire. The more that you give your attention, emotions and words to
the reality that you already ARE this dream, that you hold this design in
your cells and Energy Body, that you are this deep within your Soul you
already are this dream, the quicker you will attract that same energy
frequency into your life in the form of allies, resources, people,
synchronistic events and opportunities.

We often believe that our personal problems are objective and apart from
ourselves, that life is happening to us. But our cells know better. Our
cells are conscious and intelligent organism that are receptive to our
environment and able to respond creatively to it. For an understanding of
how this happens at a biological level, I recommend this book:
The Biology of Belief,
by Dr. Bruce Lipton.
Go here:
http://www.catchthedreamexpress.com/dreamstore/wellness.htm
Tonight you are going to learn experientially that you can influence how
your cells respond to your environment. You can change the emotional and
perceptual patterns embedded in your cells and your energy field. Once you
learn how to do this, you can apply this to change any script that has been
embedded in your psyche.
But first some announcements, and then I’ll
open the mike for a session of questions and answers. After our dialogue, we
will go on a deep meditation journey to open your cells and become available
for what you desire.

ANNOUNCEMENTS
EVENTS
Local, New York
House Visits! Create a group of friends at your house. Maria Mar
will visit you for a lively, empowering and inspiring chat. If your friends
join the
Dream Express Membership, the registration will be waived. Very limited
number of visits available.
Read more.
Live, on stage, New York
The Poetry Botánica opens its doors with several entertaining and
healing events, showcasing art that heals and transforms by artists Maria
Mar, Corazon Tierra and Tanya Torres.
Read more.
Live, on stage, USA
Have a LifeBite! Maria Mar presents
a chunk of life on stage. The Dream Alchemist presents a moving, engaging
performance that brings the wisdom of Catch the Dream Express to live
audiences. Using poetry, dance-theatre and shamanic tools for individual and
collective transformation, Maria Mar presents mirrors of today's problems.
She then offers easy, do-able solutions. Available for booking in the
USA.
Read more.
Online, global
Online Private Friendship Groups. Create a private online event
just for your friends (or clients) and enjoy an intimate, inspiring chat
with Maria Mar. The event includes an inspirational slide show, conversation
and question and answer session. If any participants joins the
Dream Express Membership right after, the registration is waived. Offer
limited.
Read more.
The next Dream Alchemist
Radio Show will be on the Second Alchemical Key to activate the
Law of Attraction. This is the key of Gratitude. Join us in November
3 at 11PM EST to learn how gratitude helps you manifest your desires, and
for a collective ceremony of thanksgiving. If you are not subscribed, please
subscribe tonight at:
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Resources
If you enjoy the journey tonight and you feel
that you want to practice becoming available for what you want, I have an
entire section in my boutique with affirmations and images on the
Availability Key. You can surround yourself with these images and
affirmation in t-shirts, cushions, coasters, boxes, bags and other apparel
and housewares. Visit my Dream I Am boutique at:
https://www.cafepress.com/dreamiam/5892207

SEGMENT 4: Dialogue
Now we will open the mike for any questions
or comments before we begin our journey.
Click here to hear the segment, including
the dialogue:

http://www.catchthedreamexpress.com/radioshow/archives.htm
Tonight, I will take you into a journey. It is a short journey. You may
experience it, however, as deep, long journey. It is a journey into your
cellular consciousness. In shamanic lore, you are visiting your House to
open a space for your guest. Your guest is what you desire.
Going back to our original statement: You can't invite a guest and then
leave home just before she arrives. She will feel unwelcome and leave before
she steps into your house. In the same way, if you are never available for
what you seek, it will not enter your house (your person) or your life. Yet
must of us are rarely available for what we so ardently desire.

SEGMENT 5: CellularJourney
To enjoy the Cellular Journey Meditation,
click to hear the segment.

http://www.catchthedreamexpress.com/radioshow/archives.htm
This
section: 90 minutes.

ANNOUNCEMENTS
In Catch the Dream Express, I have created a magical experience that
breaks the boundaries between fiction and reality to guide you in a journey
to your Dream. I have created a novel with a female protagonist, Angelina,
who finds herself on a quest for her Dream. I have embedded an encyclopedia
of Female Wisdom tools for manifestation in the story of Angelina. Then I
have created a workbook so that you can use Angelina’s journey for your own
manifestation process. Finally, I have created a membership program that
allows you to travel using the novel and workbook and my personal guidance
every month, plus a community of dreamers and many weekly, monthly and
seasonal tools to give you support in your manifestation process.
Whether you want health or wealth, love or peace, your own business or a
more fulfilling career, to publish your book or to fulfill your soul’s
mission, now you can do it with my personal guidance in a fun, magical and
creative program. I will be sending you a link to this membership in my
follow-up material.
Click to find out more
about the digital Dream Kit.
Click to find out
about the Dream Express Membership.

Here's a link to an article in our blog that explains 5 ways in which you
may be making yourself unavailable and how to make yourself available to
what you want every day.
http://dreamexpress.wordpress.com/2008/10/20/making-yourself-available-for-what-you-want/
If you have comments, experience or questions, they are welcome at our blog,
post them at this blog page:


SEGMENT 6: Conclusion
If you recognize that
there is no space for the flow of the LOA to alight or for the energy of
what you desire to take shape in your environment, it is time to open that
space. Breathe deeply. Empty yourself.
Open the space within yourself by opening
yourself to be available at a cellular level.
Celebrate yourself and your life. Make yourself available for your Dream!
This is all for today, beautiful sister. This
is the Dream Alchemist. Go to sleep now and receive your Dream. It is
already a reality. The Goddess Mother Creatress Blesses you today.
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Light and love,
Maria Mar
The Dream Alchemist